June is Pride Month a time to celebrate love, identity, and the vibrant diversity of the LGBTQ+ community. It’s also a time to acknowledge and support LGBTQ+ people who are affected by domestic abuse. Abuse can happen in any relationship, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, but LGBTQ+ survivors often face unique barriers when seeking help.

LGBTQ+ survivors of domestic abuse may face additional obstacles, such as:

Threats of being “outed” to family, friends, or at work

Fear of discrimination or not being believed

Family rejection or lack of safe support networks

Services that do not feel inclusive or understanding

Abuse related to identity, like controlling how someone expresses their gender or sexuality

Abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships can include:

Emotional and psychological abuse

Coercive control and isolation

Financial control and manipulation

Physical or sexual violence

Identity‑based abuse, such as “If you leave me, I’ll tell everyone you’re trans.”

Abuse is about power and control, not gender. Every survivor deserves to be heard, believed, and supported.

Our commitment to Inclusive Support

At Havering Women’s Aid, we are dedicated to providing support that is:

Non‑judgemental and confidential

Inclusive and respectful of all identities

Trauma‑informed and tailored to individual needs

No one should feel unsafe in their own home — and no one should feel unsafe asking for help.

You are not alone.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, it’s important to remember that help is available. You deserve to feel safe, respected, and supported.

This Pride Month and every month, Havering Women’s Aid is here for all survivors of domestic abuse.

Reach out to us if you need support.